A town had a massive cobra problem. The cobra population had gotten so huge that they were everywhere, attacking people and causing traffic jams and other problems. The Government had a great idea - they offered to pay anyone who could bring them a dead cobra - a certain amount per dead cobra. Problem solved, right? Well, no. Smart people began creating cobra farms, breeding cobras and then killing them to sell to the government, and cobra farmers started to do really well for themselves. Eventually the government catches on, and they ended the money for dead snakes program. The cobra farmers had a new problem. They had all of these cobras that no one wanted, that needed to be fed and cared for. So they released them. Now the town had twice the number of cobras it had had BEFORE the government had launched its money for dead snakes initiative.
We don't always understand the unintended consequences of our actions, especially if we are focused on addressing just what we can see on the surface. Did anyone ask, 'why are there so many cobras?' Could anyone with expertise in the geography, mating and nesting habits of cobras, climate of the region, natural predators of cobras, etc. have come up with a better solution? Or were they just too focused on fixing the problem immediately in front of them?
We are incredibly grateful for the generosity and engagement of our donors. Their support allows us to make a real difference in the lives of the people we serve. We are constantly amazed by the outpouring of support we receive, and we are so appreciative of the trust that our donors place in us. We know that there are many worthy causes out there, and we are honored that our donors have chosen to support our work. We are also so grateful for the donors that reach out to us that want to do more. However, while that desire to do more is good, the way it is approached can sometimes have unintended consequences.
For example, there may be an FEA Advocate who donating every month to the program that is strengthening family. And they may wonder, "how could I do a little more for this family I have come to care about and have a connection with? Could I send a gift to the family I'm an Advocate for?" Or maybe someone in Sierra Leone is connected to this Advocate on social media, and they've let the Advocate know there is a specific thing they'd really like to have, or that might make things easier for them. Or perhaps you traveled on a mission team to Sierra Leone, and you've noticed something you think could really help - new medical equipment for the Hospital for example. Or you met a patient who needs an ongoing treatment not usually covered by the hospital.
We get questions like these all the time, because our donors and Advocates are fantastic people who have a heart for our mission. You may have read this list of examples and thought to yourself, " Yes, I want to do more to help vulnerable children and families. Can I send HCW a donation to do more outside of what I already support?"
Well, the answer may surprise you. While we want to enable our donors to support the causes they care about, it's a little complicated by US tax code. As a 501c3 non profit organization, HCW cannot accept a donation that is designated for a specific child, person, family, or even staff member at our partner's programs in Sierra Leone. When you make a donation to a nonprofit like HCW, that donation is tax deductible, for you. However, to be tax deductible, a donation must be a pure gift available to a qualified charity. A gift is deemed deductible by the IRS if (1) it is complete and irrevocable (no "strings attached") and there are no conditions on use, (2) there is no personal benefit to the donor (the IRS looks at those more as a purchase), and (3) there are no 'earmarks' on the gift - in other words, donors cannot stipulate an 'ultimate beneficiary.' Basically, this means that the recipient/donee has free use of the donation within its stated charitably objectives. This is true not just for us, but for every nonprofit organization in the United States. It's important for donors to follow these guidelines in order to be able to take a tax deduction for a donation made to HCW's program partners. It's even more important for HCW to follow these rules as failure to do so could mean revocation of our tax status, fines, or even criminal prosecution.
Aside from the fact that the IRS doesn't let us do that, it's also not great practice, as it can inadvertently put the donor in between the professionals on the ground in Sierra Leone, and the people they're trying to serve. When donors dictate how the funds should be utilized or what specific projects they should support, they can inadvertently constrain the organization's ability to make informed decisions based on their expertise and the needs of the community they serve. Let's look at the CRC, for example. When children or families make specific requests to donors or Advocates, or donors offer to give specific things to them, they're not bringing their concerns to the case manager, the trained professional. These social workers know how to work with the family to ascertain their needs, know what other resources they may have within their extended family and in their wider community that they can draw on and depend on long-term. They have the professional expertise to assess the families' real and felt needs, and make appropriate recommendations for support to the CRC Care Panel, who determines what needs are met and for how long. Most importantly, they have the "big picture" about a family's past and present situation, the circumstances around them, and the goals they have for the future, so they're in a much better position to know how to really help. Therefore, donors should trust the CRC's expertise and allow them to utilize resources in the most impactful manner. This will ensure that a donor's generosity truly aligns with the long-term goals of the family.
It's a little different at Mercy, but still must fall into the IRS tax code restrictions. Let's say a donor notices that Mercy doesn't have a piece of medical equipment that might really be useful, or a patient with an ongoing health issue that requires treatment that isn't normally covered by the hospital. Donors can't make a donation that is designated specifically for the treatment of a specific patient by name, for example.
So what can donors who want to do more, do? (The flowcharts above might help). As a donor, you can donate to programs and projects that have already been agreed upon by Mercy Hospital and the CRC. While you cannot give to a specific family, staff member, or patient, you can donate to specific programs or activities that are near and dear to your heart. You can be an FEA Advocate: a dedicated donor contributing monthly or yearly to the program that provides material support and strengthens families so that they can care well for their own children, and achieve personal and financial independence. If you are moved to see street-connected kids find their way home, and those families get the professional help they need to stay together, you can donate to the CRC's Case Management program. If you are moved to give a poor single parent a chance to make more money, you can donate to the CRC's microfinance program to give someone an opportunity to take the class and earn a microloan. If you want to share your love with the amazing staff at MTC, Mercy and CRC, you can designate a donation for their HR and allow the UMC - SLAC HR Panel to determine how best to reflect the spirit of your thoughtfulness in the most appropriate way. If you were moved by the story of a young hernia patient you met at Mercy while on a short term mission, you can donate to Mercy's surgical program. But please understand that the decision about who and when someone receives treatment or any services must be the decision of the trained, competent staff on the ground.
So, we must process donations this way, not only because this keeps Uncle Sam happy, but because we know that we can make the greatest impact if we honor the staff who are working every day with patients, children and vulnerable families and allow them to determine how best to allocate your generous gifts. We know that trust in our partners is well placed, because just like you our partners are committed to ensuring the children, patients and families they know, work for, and care deeply about are supported, strengthened and empowered. It honors the autonomy and authority of the African Leadership team when we ask them, "how would a donation best meet the needs of the work you're trying to do?" and then allow them to use their professional work processes to make sure that your donation is used in the very best way possible.
We hope this helps clarify how donations flow through HCW and other nonprofits, and that you feel empowered to make a donation knowing that it will be utilized in the best possible way to help vulnerable people in Sierra Leone. We are committed to using our donors' gifts wisely and responsibly. We work closely with our program partners to carefully consider how to allocate our resources so that we can maximize our impact. We also work hard to be transparent and accountable to our donors, so that you know how your gifts are being used. Our promise to you is that your gifts and donations will be used to the betterment of the lives of children, families, and communities.
Thank you to all of our donors for your support. We could not do our work without you!
Mattia Family’s Story of Change.
Just like any parents, Fatmata and her husband had great hopes and dreams for their four children. They had a happy life together and were excited about the future. Unfortunately, those dreams came crashing down when Fatmata’s husband died a tragic death.
Now as a single mother, Fatmata Mattia wanted her children to have access to a better life – school, food, healthcare, and above all to stay together as a family, but extreme poverty kept her stuck. Living in an overcrowded, unfinished house on the outskirts of town with 12 other people. Her children stopped going to school because she could no longer afford the fees. She tried every day to change the course of her life for the better but extreme poverty remained the greatest obstacle between her and her dreams of a good life for her family.
Having spent two years moving from place to place looking for a way out, she was losing hope. Her family was on the verge of separation — she felt like her only option was losing her children to the streets or being forced to send them to different orphanages across the country so at least they could go to school and have food to eat.
“I could feel loneliness and darkness on most days... I was losing my mind, especially when I started seeing my children being drawn to the streets for survival.”
But here is the truth: Through caring partners like you, transformation can always happen to even the most vulnerable people on this planet.
Through the generosity of supporters and friends like you, the Mattia Family was rescued by the Child Reintegration Centre. Her hope was restored. The CRC enrolled Fatmata in the Family Strengthening and Microfinance program, where she benefited from parenting workshops, learned how to heal trauma in her family, and learned basic financial and business skills – saving, budgeting, and planning. These skills improved capacity and resilience.
She graduated from the program and went on to turn her situation around for the better.
“…Those days are gone. Those days when I would feel myself crying from the inside, wondering about my children’s future. How I would ever be able to support them, and for me to be proud of myself as their mother… Now, our story has changed for good.”
With a microloan of $120, she got a shop and started her tailoring business. She hired four employees whose families were also in critical situations.
She was able to get a better apartment for her family, and her children were no longer sleeping on the floor. All her kids are now back in school and doing very well. The Mattia Family is just one of those hundreds of families you are changing their lives forever.
What can you give today to help a family break free from the stronghold of extreme poverty?
Sulaiman and his Grandmother: A Story of Transformation
There are an estimated 76,000 street-connected children in Sierra Leone (Street Child Report 2020). Every day in Sierra Leone, we witness a heartbreaking sight - children and youth walking the streets, traumatized, and living in deplorable conditions due to extreme poverty.
These vulnerable young people face various challenges. Some suffer from neglect and homelessness, while others are forced to engage in odd jobs and beg for food and money to support their families. They are often seen in unhealthy situations, digging through smelly, unsafe dumpsites, and collecting scrap metal to sell for a meager income.
Because of generous supporters like you, Helping Children Worldwide and the Child Reintegration Centre are committed to preventing family separation and its related life-long trauma by reuniting orphaned and abandoned children with families, strengthening them to become stable and independent.
Meet Sulaiman and his grandmom, Hawa.
Hawa makes her living as a petty trader, selling a variety of small items from the veranda of her tiny home in Southern Sierra Leone. Whatever she can find, she sells to the people in her neighborhood: palm oil, charcoal, firewood, fried potatoes, and plantains. Everyone knows Hawa by her nickname, “One-Five” in which she takes great pride.
“They call me ‘One-Five’ because I negotiate the price of everything down to one thousand five hundred Leones (1,500 Leones = 15 cents).”
Hawa has been a widow for many years. Her husband worked as a cleaner at a local clinic when he became infected with malaria and typhoid, a common occurrence among the working poor in Sierra Leone. Unable to afford medical treatment, he became increasingly sick and ultimately died of complications related to the two diseases.
Hawa and her husband cared for several of their grandchildren, but when her husband died, she became their sole provider and caretaker. When her son Ansu fell ill from a chronic skin condition, Hawa took in yet another grandson, Sulaiman, then just seven years old.
Hawa loved and enjoyed taking care of her grandchildren, but without her husband’s income, she struggled to provide for the family, who were crammed into a tiny, dilapidated mud home. Hunger and need were constant, and they all struggled.
Sulaiman loved his grandmother and cousins but struggled with grief over the separation from his father and the pressures of living in an overcrowded house where there was seemingly never enough to eat.
One day Sulaiman ran away from home, connecting with a group of street boys scraping out an existence. He soon learned that life on the streets was much harder than life at home, but he was ashamed to return.
Hawa was heartbroken when Sulaiman disappeared.
“When [he] went missing, I was crying every day. My eyes were red. I had so many sleepless nights worrying about my grandson’s whereabouts. I cried until my eyes were swollen and they were about to fall out. But one thing that I did not lose is faith. I did not lose hope. I was still praying.”
As the Child Reintegration Centre reunites orphaned and abandoned children with families, they are helping the families become stable and self-sufficient by providing them with mentoring, skills training, parent education, case management, and support for education and health care.
Understanding that the best place for a child to grow and thrive is within a family, The Child Reintegration Centre’s case management team works to reintegrate children separated from care, back into their own or other suitable families. During one of the CRC’s Street surveys, they met Sulaiman, and eventually brought him back to his grandmother, Hawa.
Hawa was overwhelmed with joy. “Oh my God! I couldn’t believe it,” Hawa recalls. “I nearly fainted when I saw Sulaiman back at home. You rescued him from the streets and made our family whole again. This changes everything for the better.”
The CRC helped Hawa re-enroll Sulaiman in school. Additionally, Sulaiman and his family receive support for school, access to healthcare at Mercy Hospital, ongoing case management, and the opportunity to participate in family-strengthening activities. The case manager assigned to the family regularly visits the home and Sulaiman’s school to provide ongoing support to help the family work toward interpersonal and financial independence and self-sustainability.
To help vulnerable families flourish, the CRC supports parents through family-strengthening services to build their capacity and resilience with parenting workshops, and microfinance programs where they learn small business and money management skills. Graduates receive a small loan to start or expand a small business. Acquiring these skills can truly help a family break out of the cycle of dysfunction and illiteracy that throws them into extreme poverty.
Hawa and her family have benefited from family strengthening workshops, including the Attachment Theory Workshop, which helps Hawa to heal the trauma of separation and other challenges Sulaiman has suffered.
Sulaiman takes his schoolwork seriously and aspires to have a job in the medical field one day. “I know my family is poor and uneducated, but I have dreams to make important changes” he explains. “I want to be able to lift them out of poverty with my education. I want to help other street-connected children to find safe homes. My country needs healthcare workers to help treat the many diseases we have. I want to be part of the healthcare solution.”
Hawa is so grateful to the Child Reintegration Centre for helping Sulaiman to come back home from the streets and join the family. “CRC was a Godsend,” Hawa says. “They came in when my hope was starting to fade away. I was beginning to think Sulaiman was never coming back. I will forever be grateful to the CRC and the donors. Because of you, we are one big family again”
The Child Reintegration Centre is dedicated to reuniting vulnerable children with safe, caring, and permanent families, and strengthening and empowering those families toward independence.
“With the CRC’s help, I have even become more empowered and motivated to keep doing my best to take care of my family. The name ‘One-Five’ is now shining more than ever. Your support restored hope to me”
If you feel called to give, you can make a quick donation that will help us rescue and reunite street-connected children with their safe, forever families, and strengthen them to stay together and become independent.
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